Chinese Lunar Month - 4th
(18th May to 15th June 2015)
(16th June 2015)
A prediction for each month could help a person to plan ahead for commitments, avoid
any possible unhappy event and uncover the potential success the month might bring.
***Good Luck and Wishes Come True!***
Chart (Monthly Horoscope)
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No doubt you sometimes agonize over certain past
issues, however you long since learnt that with certain individuals,
saying nothing is better than speaking up at the wrong time, place or
occasion. While some matters can wait, others are becoming quite
pressing, if really that urgent, raise them but have a fallback
situation available. As an alternative, you could do nothing
(ironically), totally disregarding those pressing issues and hoping that
they will probably resolve themselves. But guilty conscience could leave
you feeling uneasy and you may be condemned for both interfering and
not. Sounds like an egg sandwiched between two rugged hard rocks. Listen
to what your heart tells you and do the right things for all parties
You may feel that you have reorganized various elements of
your life and some positive changes were welcome, others overdue, a few
disruptive and many were triggered by recent third parties interference.
During this month, there could be a second round of imminent changes,
involving those who are part of your everyday life - friends, family
or colleagues. Shifts in their circumstances mean rethinking even
long-standing arrangements - career progress, live style, friendship
or business. Some could become quite unsettling due to the change in
environment and may take a while to readjust; it is actually not a bad
idea after all. Give it more time to settle down and find the comfort
On the financial front, you still have quite a task to
deal with and or overcome for some of you are faced with a series of
debts to clear. No matter what, avoid making hasty short-term decisions
merely to address those shortfalls. It is advisable to consider the
longer-term scenario and put restraint on some spending urges that are
not mandatory. Provided you stick to the strict plans, your financial
worries should be eradicated much earlier than you envisage. In the
meantime, continue to deal with the normal daily routines and avoid
taking short cuts to acquire some financial gains. Always consider that
you are here for the long-haul and society is getting ‘smaller' due
to continuous modern technology development.
For those who recently got married, your life style will
begin to transform into something new and perhaps challenging ahead.
Whether it will be filled with excitement, adventures or the opposite,
it depends on both parties' participation. As long as both parties do
not have high expectation of each other, the relationship will at least
have a brilliant start. For married couples or those living together,
situation could become volatile for no significant reason. Perhaps both
parties want some space, and are not able to recognize such needs. It is
not a major issue, but each individual needs to respect the others
personal privacy space and time. Things should turn back to normal after
a while but do not rush the situation.
There are moments for everything in life. Perhaps the
time has come to let go of certain arrangements that you have been
dreading for a while. No doubt you can be sentimental about certain
matters. As you probably know in the past, you have held on for far too
long and you could be at risk of doing so again. If you cannot say a
final farewell to these, at least begin the process gradually. Sometimes
it is the fear of dealing with the unknown, but once you understand the
reasons and become aware of the outcome, such fear should automatically
disappear. You could view life with a different perspective and continue
doing so with a more positive approach ahead.
There is no right way or method to deal with situations
that are just plain impossible to the naked eye. Worse, you see others benefiting
from certain developments, while you are feeling happy for
them, however it seems unfair. Perhaps you may not be in a mood for
patience but it is worth biding your time for there is nothing you can
do about it. Not too long ago, you were discussing ways and promising
ideas or offers. Yet now, they appear to be vanishing and being replaced
by others. This is exciting but also worrying at the same token. This
month is about exactly that variety of exploration. Understand that and
you will recognize changes as a part of the process. You will need to go
with the flow in order to catch up with the latest. Otherwise you will
be left behind or feeling stranded in no man's land.
Recent discussions about previously worrying financial
matters were positive, so much so that you are inclined to take things
to the next stage. Implement exactly that but say no more than
necessary. Worrying as this may sound with such slow pace; it indirectly
forces others to respond, which in turn means they cannot blame you as
such. By doing so, they will need to bear some financial
responsibilities of their own rather than trying to make you the
scapegoat if things have gone pear-shaped. It is a tactic that you would
need to master when dealing with others that are hiding underneath the
skirt. As long as you have all the relevant facts and figures, you
should be performing well and legally. However you should not rest on
your laurels at this stage even though the situation seems secure. Never
underestimate others' capabilities to retaliate.
Being able to air your views or if it is a romantic
matter, reveal your feelings at the right moment is important. With the
current pace, however you seem to have limited choice about when you
address these matters. With things moving swiftly you will need to speak
up the minute they arise. Once you pause trying to find an easier way to
deliver a relatively ‘difficult' message, everything else will fall
into place. Loved ones know there has been a communication problem; so
it should not be a surprise that someone is raising this issue. He/she
will in fact be relieved things are finally out in the open. But do take
into consideration the art of communication - sometimes the message
may mean something different due to the nature of the tone even though
the meanings and messages are good.
Sometimes obstacles are exactly that, but this month
they are hinting at unresolved historical issues. Knowing that, you
would need to try addressing them in a gentle but forthright manner. At
the initial stage, what you learn will be informative but in certain
matters the insight could resolve long-standing concerns. It is not an
issue that can be resolved over-night given the nature of the history.
Where others are involved due to the complex nature of the issues, you
will require more time; support and most of all have patience and
approach with an open mindset. Sometimes what you hear and see may not
be enough. More importantly you should need to listen to all parties'
stories before responding and arriving at a conclusion. Such is the
dilemma when dealing with human beings nature.
Planning ahead comes naturally to you in order to avoid
potential downfall and hopefully be able to take control of your own
destiny. Once you know and decide what you need to do with your career,
lifestyle and happiness, you should organize your time accordingly.
Sometime no matter how careful you think things through, it is unlikely
you will have anticipated all the possible twists and turns. Under such
circumstances, it would be ideal that there is some flexibility with
some of your plans or arrangements. It will be a bonus if you also have
support and encouragement from loved ones and family members to provide
the moral support and guidance in fulfilling your ambitions. Compounded
with such support, your luck will increase several fold.
Sometimes the best of offers or deals appear in the least
likely of manners or ways. Bearing in mind that as the thrilling or
occasionally unsettling events that surface every now and then without
you realizing it; instead of ignoring what seems unappealing, they could
turn out brilliantly. Suggest you should pause and reconsider at least
some of the criteria or terms/specifications. This is not just about
what ultimately works for certain, it is also about those you
meet/encounter, the new ideas and places you visit. Even what you do not
pursue could enrich your life at some stage. Financial gains or profits
derive in various formats or circumstances. With the appropriate timing,
place and good fortune, money will come searching for you instead of the
opposite. Hence keep your eyes and ears wide open and observe the
Having a loving husband/wife is more than a dream comes
true for lots of people. Hence you should treasure and appreciate what
you are enjoying. There is no point in comparing with others that may
have better or more ‘things' than what you actually need. Trying to
put a price to a loving relationship will be meaningless if such token
can be valued with money or materialism. In general, when couples are
financially sound and secure, they usually will be struggling to find or
establish genuine love for each other. Hence in the modern society
divorce is becoming common among the rich or super rich. A stable
relationship is usually built on trust and caring love for each other
irrelevant whether the couples are financially rich or poor.
Do not let the loss of something that has been a part
of your life for a long time upset you. It would be easy to put the
blame for the difficult situation you faced with the feet of certain
careless individuals. While it could be true, their attitude about most
matters is lackadaisical; they are no more responsible than you are.
Challenging as it is, accept that nobody is at fault and move on in
life. Hopefully with time that sense of loss will be replaced by a
variety of freedoms you have not experienced for ages. Better yet, you
will realize you are finally able to explore the new wide world or
alternate options. On the other hand, you may consider whatever happens,
there are valid reason or reasons and hopefully you may see things from
a different perspective at some stage.
One of the most challenging things for you to do is
refusing a request, especially if it is important to the individual in
question. Not only do such practical matters give you no alternate
option, even if you let them proceed, you envisage that they could soon
run into problems that will upset you and those involved. Based on
experience, you may certainly like to avoid such disaster from the
outset. The question is ‘How are you going to let them down gently
without hurting their feelings?' Do bear in mind that not many people
can accept the truth or facts head on. Sounds tricky and perhaps the
appropriate approach is to provide examples or stories about certain
events and let them think for themselves. Dropping hints and emphasizing
the importance or consequences of certain critical issues (similar to
what there are facing) with hindsight hopefully they will get the
picture. Doing more than required could backfire.
Perhaps you have been trying to fit too much into your
hectic schedules; recently, certain activities have become more
demanding. Whatever the case, you have not got enough time for
everything that demands your undivided attention or input without
creating problems for others and yourself. Tempting, as it is to control
your schedule, it would be advisable to cut loose or cut back those less
critical issues while you can. It is still not too late to salvage the
potential disaster from happening as long you take prompt corrective
actions and re-evaluate the business or financial matters. With
corrective measures or steps in place, you should be able to overcome
the issues and save your career or business.
During this period, it hardly seems the ideal moment for
a frank discussion about persistent issues with loved ones. What you
learn both about the actual circumstances and the attitude will help to
clear up confusion that has been as worrying as it has been persistent.
Once the air is cleared, it will also clarify your own thinking,
especially avoiding jumping to conclusion without having to explore the
facts or listening to the other side's stories or reasons. For loving
lovers, things are not going as smooth as one would like to, fighting
over trivial matters that are really not significant to begin with.
Hopefully it will not escalate to a higher level by not talking to each
other. This could be defined as a lover's quarrel, which may seem
quite normal, but just do not let it get out of hand.
Few things make you more upset than somebody
revealing information you regard as private and confidential. Before you
get angry or cut them out of your life, consider their character. While
you may assume the worst in them or their view of what should be kept
under wraps, but in fact it is different. Combination of conflict of
interest and expectation, it would be quite a challenge to be able to
reconcile and perhaps accept them for what they are. It will be near
impossible to change their character in order to suit your personal
preferences. Likewise, if you put yourself in their shoes and perhaps
understand how they react. Hence let it be and if life goes on each
separate way so be it. It is not going to be the end of the world, but
merely living in a separate sphere.
There are rare but wonderful periods during which
things fall into place as if by magic. The Dragon animal sign suggests
this is exactly what will happen. No doubt some of these arrangements
may have been on your mind and several will have already been organized in great depth, most will appear from out of the blue. These are blessed
by the superb planetary alignment, which suggests not only joyous events
but also they will proceed without a glitch. Hence you could be having
hectic schedules ahead, which you have been preparing for. By the time,
you will have the full support and help needed to fulfill one of your
dreams. More importantly, you will need all the energy and strength to
spring forward to a new start.
Thrilling as recent developments have been, the
conservative side of your nature is suspicious. While this cautious side
is strength at the moment that could keep you from taking potential
stunning offers. Once you begin to discover or learn in depth, you will realize
they are better than they seemed superficially. That is only the
start for there is more to explore and research if you really want to
understand how the whole operation works or the working mechanism of the
model or system. Things can be as complex or simple as you make it. No
matter which model or option, you would need to evaluate the pros and
cons and weigh the probable outcome with your investment plans. Ideally
you could take the initial step to test the water and perhaps start with
the basics and gradually progress from there onwards. Just avoid making
hasty decisions or jumping straight into the deep end of the pool.
Peace and harmony within the family is vital also as
far as a relationship is concerned. Without the above two vital
ingredients, life could be meaningless no matter how successful career
or business has been. Hence you should treasure what you are having with
loved ones and family members. Whatever you attained on top of that
could be considered a bonus. For those that remain single and or
unwilling to make a permanent commitment with loved ones, perhaps you
may need to consider what is preventing you from going ahead to the next
stage. Fear is your greatest enemy within and no one can help you if you
do not overcome such fear yourself. Furthermore there is no life
guarantee that each relationship will always remain rosy till the end
but then again it does not mean it cannot happen either. The outcome
will depend on the two individuals desires, needs, understanding and
Feeling upset merely hearing other's negative
remarks about you behind your back is not going to help you emotionally.
On the contrary, it may fire up your hatred and fury leading to thinking
of retaliation. Before you do such, just ask yourself what benefit would
you hope to achieve other than trying to teach them a lesson? Why not
save your energy and effort and challenge them into some more positive
or meaningful things in life? Furthermore this is a free society and you
cannot prevent others from making remarks whether it is true of false.
Just remember that there are all sorts of people in this planet and how
can you possibly rectify them appropriately? Even the Almighty could not
possibly accomplish that.
For quite some time you have battled unwelcome changes in
elements of your work, lifestyle or even your perspective on life. As a
Snake sign, making your own decisions about such things is not just
important, you regard it a serious matter. During this period, you will realize
how ferocious independence has prevented you from experiencing
some of life's great joys. Whether to make significant changes and
take a leap of faith in life could depend on your own decisions. Ensure
that you are not influenced by other's remarks or their achievements.
As long as you know what make you tick and find comfortable with the new
challenge, then you can feel that you are heading in the right direction
most appropriate to your needs or desires. Being patient also has an
equally vital influence. The world could be your oyster as long as you
cherish what you are doing and happy to continue at your own pace.
This month's events encourage you to ask a question you
rarely consider: 'What is in it for me?' No doubt this is out of
character, as you dislike those who put gain over everything else.
However it is still a valid question. While this may seem uncaring, you
will realize others' dramas are far more complex than you envisaged
and that you are well out of them. Reach a moment where you will need to
stand your ground and fight for a fair share of your effort and
contributions. You will need to negotiate the terms and conditions
rather than merely making demands. There is a huge difference between
the two, where the latter sounds more intimidating. On the other hand,
you will be trying to sell your skill and experience and should be
Every individual has a passionate streak, both for love
and life's pleasures - one you mostly hold in check. Recent intense
activities could have pushed you over the edge. Now you have realized what you have done and cannot rewrite the event. Hence you may need to
assess your priorities. Ultimately, however it is going to be about a
diplomatic withdrawal or if you are feeling brave, plunging in deeper.
Whatever the case, this time you need to have thought things through and
be prepared to accept the outcome. This is merely the start of your love
life's new chapter and where the adventure is leading to does depend
on both party's participation and desires. It is a long journey ahead,
so avoid making demanding wish lists and rules and regulations.
While many of life's chores or duties are clear cut,
normal routines and those involving family or domestic matters change
with time, sometimes dramatically. During this period, that will be the
case. Although figuring out how best to handle some of these teething
matters could be quite perplexing at the initial stage and what you
gradually learn and discover will explain a lot. For an impatient
individual, you may find it annoying and to some extent agitating that
you want to scream off your head. On the other hand, pause a moment and
take a deep breath or two, calm down before exploding. Then ask yourself
why you should let others enjoy seeing you in such a state and provide
opportunity for making a laughing stock out of you?
Talking about making things happen or vital decisions is
one thing, actually committing to those plans is quite another.
Frustrating as setbacks have been for certain instants or situations,
each has exposed a weakness or problem you might not otherwise have
noticed in the past. Knowing this, you should resist the temptation of
rushing things or trying to accommodate others' requests or needs.
There are moments where you have to take priority over others before you
can continue to fend for them. Do not feel terrible for others
misfortune, continue to do your best strengthening your own foundation.
When you manage to overcome your own weakness, then you can proceed to
assist those that require your support or advice. Disregarding rumors that merely try to discredit you behind your back or causing distraction
for their personal gains.
After a series of lengthy and often unprofitable
discussions about future financial plans in association with home
improvements, investments, pensions and or children education funds, you
may have given up hope of making progress. However with a sudden change
of circumstances, everything comes alive together again. Some elements
of these arrangements are not what you had in mind originally. Why not
regard this as a good starting point and continue to improvise with the
new challenging rules and regulations. As long as you explore all
possible options and scenarios to your best knowledge, no matter what
the outcome, you should feel relief and relaxed about financial affairs.
Otherwise you will continue to worry endlessly for the welfare of those
concerned. There is so much you can do and achieve in this life and
should leave others to continue doing their own thing.
Having certain tense issues dealt with will be a real
relief momentarily. While you may know what you want or desire and
equally what you think is ideal or best for close friends, lover or
partner, one particular individual is becoming less certain of their
priorities. Tempting, as it is to provide them with advice because you
care about them; it is advisable to avoid such approach, for it will
only complicate your love life or existing relationship. In trying to
help them, you may not develop ulterior motives but it could also give
out a different signal to the recipient. On the other hand, your partner
could be watching you like a hawk without you being aware.
Lately you did mention that you were on target in many
parts of your life; however towards the end of latter parts of last
month's disillusioning health events made you reconsider the situation.
You may need to deliberate the issues frankly or research the
uncertainty. This should highlight what works and does not and what must
be detached or dismissed. Pick up your hidden courage and broaden your
horizon towards surviving in healthier environments. Only you must
decide what future you would like to accomplish in life. The medical
professionals' obligation could be limited by their conducts of
practice. You have the choice to choose to make things much better or at
least lead more positive life style.
It should be of no surprise if during the first two weeks
of this month, you have trouble getting your ideas across to those that
matter and possibly change your destiny. You did benefit from certain
arrangements and enjoyed the activities and the individuals involved.
However times move on but arrangements remain unchanged, mostly because
nobody has the courage to speak up and challenge those that have been
trying to suppress potential changes. Perhaps situation or events are
about to force your hand and voice your grave concerns for the general
benefit. Before you do so, you need to get the timing and condition
appropriate. Some of your trusted colleagues, close friends and unknowns
will provide the support and encouragement that is needed.
Recalling from certain past negative encounters, they
remind you that if acting in haste and without due consideration for
personal respect or reputation, you are likely to regret as a
consequence. However, several situations seem so urgent that you could
feel you have limited choice but to react swiftly. Act without in-depth
reflection and you will soon repeat similar errors. Why not consider
distancing yourself away from such predicament and taking more time to
contemplate over the new depths you are examining. Learn from
everything, expand on what works and eliminate the rest. More
importantly is not to rush into a situation that would merely create
chaos and sleepless nights.
You may panic that if you choose to ignore certain
relationship issues, things will inevitably go wrong. Having such
irrational thoughts is not going to get you anywhere or things that you
wanted to achieve or cherish. They are not as weighty as you have
convinced yourself to be. In fact things will turn out more positive
than envisaged if only you stop dwelling on them and busy yourself with
more meaningful things. Past trivial errors and misunderstandings will
eventually untangle themselves and life is offering you a wonderful
distraction in the form of new ideas that should widen your horizons. As
you explore further, you will not only be learning about what you could
be discovering but also about those unnecessary worrying relationships
issues. You will reach a conclusion that you had been behaving like a
fool in the past.
Witnessing familiar elements of your life vanishing in
front of your eyes is not easy, yet at the same token; you are
experiencing a sense of great relief. That is because your instincts
have long told you these should go but you did not know where and how to
begin. During this period, circumstances naturally are taking care of
the situation and you should go with the flow. Although sudden changes
can be annoying or difficult to adjust to, you rather enjoy the
challenge of figuring ways to overcome them, ensuring others understand
the nature of the events. If you get stuck along the way, never hesitate
to seek some form of guidance from those who may know more about similar
Infuriating or just plain biased as recent difficulties
have been, they also drew your attention to the misconstruction behind
some of these problems. Tempting, as it is to put it all behind you, at
least you could start some dialogue with those that are also affected as
a consequence. This takes courage, determination and some faith, the
capacity to forgive and forget. Still if you can accomplish that and
also cut through pressures, toward the end of the month, they will turn
into amazingly constructive exchanges. This is only the beginning of
something new in your life's chapter. You would need to improvise as
things are turning or changing with the circumstances. The ability to
survive the course of the contest could depend on your sheer
determination and ambition.
Nobody would blame you for ignoring certain practical or
financial matters until the final moment. However there is an increasing
management focus on this issue. This means that you will need to have
gathered and put into precise order those detailed facts that may bore
you. Do not underestimate some of those menial tasks or duties that
could have huge impact on the overall outcome. By and large, the
implication is much greater or complex than you imagine. However for
getting things right the first time, you will be rewarded handsomely in
terms of financial gains and career progress. Hence you can say that you
are riding on a high roller coaster and do not take your eyes off things
lightly. Focus and re-evaluate things several times if necessary.
While you enjoy a relaxed conversation with loved ones
or partner, you fear those of a serious nature. Yet if you do not air
certain issues now, confusion could lead to problems. Lies after lies
would merely make matter worse, just like treading on quick sand. The
more your struggle the deeper you would sink. Honesty is still the best
policy and a powerful one. Hence do not undermine the outcome. Do not
make the mistake of thinking that you can deal with the obstructive
conduct of a loved one in a single civilized discussion. At times,
he/she is so convinced that he/she is right and will not listen. However
if you are patient enough, this will be dealt with by the unexpected and
stunning events likely to occur by mid-month. Play it cool by all means
for the time being, you should not regret it at the end of the day.
Initially you were unenthusiastic about potential
changes in your work or lifestyle. But after a brief encounter and
lengthy discussions with learned friends or new groups, you have since
been won over. You may consider such events are clearly both timely and
inevitable and you would rather get on with them. However it is not that
simple or straight forward though. The foundation on which certain
arrangements are based is unstable. In the meantime, ensure any future
plans are tentative to the point where you can alter them as
circumstances and your objectives shift. This way, at least you have the
choice to decide what approach to adopt when much clearer views and
facts are established. Take as much time as you need, just avoid making
hasty decisions due to the influence of others.
Although you may admit you are cautious when dealing with
something that is unfamiliar or unheard before, you disagree with
suggestions and sometimes being paranoid. Under such circumstances, any
human being would behave in a suspicious manner too. However your
negative reaction to the current crop of positive ideas, offers and
opportunities could create a lost opportunity. Out of character as
saying yes to those potential offers, perhaps it is a superb exercise in
trust over suspicion. Furthermore you can always say no at a later
stage. Weighing up the pros and cons of the situation is not rocket
science and you could easily assess the probabilities. On the plus side,
you too are blessed by the good fortune that you are not in a desperate
situation that needs to take up the potential offers immediately.
Despite your best efforts, you have been unable to resolve
persistent financial issues involving close ties, personally or those at
work. With the actual circumstances shifting, even organizing a single
day has been quite challenging if not difficult. So attempts to plan
long-term finance or budget arrangements could be unrewarding without
first having addressed the roots of the issue. Compound by the current
contentious management set-up or potential breaking-out and trying to
keep the peace will be an enormous accomplishment but it does not mean
impossible. Unless it is your responsibility to weed out the problems,
otherwise stay well clear of the problem no matter how hard you want to
help. You can always channel your energy and resources dealing with your
personal finances rather than wasting time on them.
Do not let the fear of not been able to express your
true feelings for someone that you admired or adored over a certain
period. Hiding such feelings of affection can prolong the agony within
and it may give a false signal to the opposite that you do not care
enough for them. It may sound old fashioned in this modern era. Ask
yourself whether you are happy with the present arrangement or if there
is something you can change to make things much better? For married
couples, romance is not totally dead or has become ice cool either.
Possibly you have found other meaningful interests in life and tend to
neglect the other half gradually over the period. As long as you have
not taken things for granted and still treat loved ones with respect and
care, the romance is still alive. Sometimes you just need to do
something to express the facts that you treasure the company and have
not totally neglected them.
Taking quality time out for life's pleasures when
things need to be done and dealt with may be out of character. But as
you know, sometimes you get so involved in those obligations forgetting
about your personal needs and of even greater significance those of
others. You have made excuses once too often and it is about time to
inform everybody else that they will have to wait because you have more
important things to do for a change. Obviously you have earned your fair
share of the responsibilities for the undertakings and should not feel
bad or obligated for abandoning those that rely on your frequent
services or assistance. Enjoy the break and you should certainly feel
much more afresh, alive and also view lifestyle from a different
Sometimes having disagreements are considered positive
attitudes rather than becoming a yes man or woman. During this month,
many could be calling for your attention to deal with practical
difficulties or perhaps unspoken misunderstandings. While some are minor
and others are more complex which will not disappear of their own
accord. Whenever feasible, you will need to tackle them from the outset
or nibbling at the buds. Some do not seem urgent but with a series of
potential thrilling encounters and opportunities appearing, you may want
to eliminate anything that could be troublesome for you and others
involved. Treat the situation as a blessing in disguise and provided you
done your homework well, you should be able to reap some benefits out of
the chaotic situation, or kill two birds with one stone.
For every two steps forward, you are taking one step back.
Such circumstances are both morally frustrating, none productive and
confusing perhaps. But on the plus side, it also prevents you from formalizing
certain financial arrangements that you may later regret.
Obviously, you are very keen to get things moving forward unimpeded,
between changes in circumstances and your own hastily evolving
priorities, even certain or trivial loose plans could be obstructive.
Pause momentarily and re-evaluate the situation from a different angle;
try adopting the philosophy approach of living for the day instead of
forcefully achieving the dreams within a relatively short period. You
might even enjoy this remarkable cycle. You need to bear in mind that
certain dreams in life cannot be forcefully accomplished or fulfilled
without having taking the appropriate routes.
When family members or very close friends are feeling
tense, you consider it your duty to create harmony or become a
peace-broker. No matter how hard you may try, be prepared to encounter
numerous frustrating scenarios. Not only emotionally it upset those
involved, but your personal relationship with loved ones is also
affected. Provided you have the full support and blessing from loves
ones to continue in trying to bridge the gap, you will have a better
chance of success. Otherwise, say your piece with them and step back.
For those still single and living in a carefree environment, be prepared
that your life could change suddenly when someone encountered might
inspire you change your view about actually living a meaningful life.
The days of daydreaming or fantasies are over and you will never look at
things or life in the same way as before.
When you raise certain queries, your intention is not
to cause distress. Yet do not be astounded if you get that response from
several close individuals. This forces them to face facts they have been
hoping are untrue and to shoulder the obligation for one tricky
situation. Since then, you have learned matters of an emotional nature
can only be sensed, not assessed. It is advisable to bear in mind, as
you and those around you are dealing with those unsettling events, need
to consider the sensitive human nature. Whether the outcome is something
positive or the opposite, you can influence some of the decisions
through open dialogue, debate or diplomatic approach.
Although the recent focus on practical, professional or
work-related obligations has not exactly been thrilling, you have dealt
with all sorts of tasks, responsibilities and continue to learn a lot.
Better yet, this is clearing both your diary and your mind of
distractions. This is considered a relief but it will be exceedingly
handy in the near future. Ordinarily you are quite philosophical about
promising ideas that appear then subside. However when certain plans
were first discussed, you were thrilled. To your dismay, they have since
withdrawn into the shadow. Do not give up and do not accept second best
either. Those plans will soon be revived, bringing a new lease of life
to these ventures.
Imposing order on certain arrangements is considered
efficient and should perhaps put your mind at rest. Even though if these
could be organised promptly, between changes around you and your own
shifting priorities, be prepared that not much does last or remain
permanent. Based on such interpretation, forget about being sensible and
instead take chances on certain ideas, ventures and possibly alliances
that always intrigued you but which you never had the courage to pursue
in the past. Still, there are lots of background searches or homework
that you need to complete before signing on the line. Do not expect
immediate positive feedbacks for you will need to allow time to mature
and blossom. Consider it as a long-term investment plan.
Often you are the first to encourage loved ones or close
friends to let go of certain negative past, whether it is habit or
pursuit of possessions. However events are perhaps forcing you to
consider doing the same, you are not nearly as passionate. Aware that
you are losing your touch or way, you should still be able to steer
clear of the potential wrong path. With encouragement and support from
loved ones, before long you are guided back on track. Having experienced
the dark side of the force, it makes you treasure what you have near
beside you and appreciate the companionship. For those living on his/her
own, loneliness can sometimes haunt an individual. The fear of getting
involved with someone has prevented you from making certain commitments.
But then again should you live in such fear about the future? Until you
decide to make the bold move, you will never know whether the outcome is
certainly a positive or negative type.